Do you feel like you’re always running on empty? Constantly trying to make everyone else happy—yet you’ve forgotten what makes you happy? If yes, you’re in the right place.
This article explores powerful insights from Kelly Weekers’ book, Choosing Me. It’s not about being selfish—it’s about finally choosing you.
Why Choosing Yourself Isn’t Selfish
Many of us are raised to believe that putting others first is the right thing to do. Sure, kindness is beautiful. But ignoring your own needs leads to burnout and unhappiness.
When your cup is full, you have more to give.
Choosing yourself doesn’t mean you’re abandoning others. It means you’re showing up stronger, happier, and more present—for everyone around you.
Build Self-Love and Healthy Boundaries
Reconnect with Who You Are
Life throws challenges. Society, family, and relationships often push us to mold ourselves. Over time, we lose touch with our authentic self.
But here’s the good news:
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Say Yes to What Fills You
Saying no to what drains you means saying yes to what restores you. Boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re sacred. They protect your time, your peace, and your energy.
Trust Your Inner Voice
Have you ever ignored a gut feeling… and later regretted it?
That’s your inner compass speaking.
When you trust your intuition, your decisions begin to align with your true self. That means:
- More honest relationships
- Clear communication
- Choices that actually feel right
Your voice matters—especially to you.
Embrace Your Emotions: Feel, Deal, Heal
Stop Running from Your Feelings
We’re taught to “stay strong” or “move on.” But stuffing emotions down only creates pain.
It’s OK to say:
- “I feel tired.”
- “I feel overwhelmed.”
- “I need rest.”
Giving your feelings space is the first step toward healing.
Process, Don’t Suppress
Feeling is just the start. You also need to deal with your emotions in healthy ways—like journaling, therapy, rest, or creative expression.
This emotional work leads to a more grounded, fulfilling life.
Final Words: It’s Time to Choose YOU
You’re not here to be everything for everyone.
You’re here to be fully, authentically you.
Start your journey.
Read Choosing Me by Kelly Weekers.
Watch the video.
Write. Reflect. Breathe.
Choose YOU.
